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DisciplineAka: Misbehavior
- Causes of Misbehavior
- Intrinsic factors
- Child tired, bored or hungry
- Child needs greater adult attention
- Psychosocial confounding factors
- Parent divorce or separation
- Severe poverty
- Parental mental illness or Substance Abuse
- Associated conditions
- Intrinsic factors
- Components of an effective discipline system
- Positive, supportive parent-child relationship
- Playful and warm, affectionate relationship
- Respond to best behaviors with increased attention
- Keep consistent daily schedule and activity patterns
- Response to a given behavior should be consistent
- Listen, negotiate, and involve child in decisions
- Strategy for teaching and reinforcing best behaviors
- Examples: Sharing, good manners, empathy, studying
- Limit rules to a few clear, unambiguous rules
- Schedule special-time for one-on-one communication
- Listen to your child carefully
- Offer choices when possible and help them to evaluate
- Praise best behaviors frequently
- Consider point system to buy prizes with
- Win points for positive behaviors
- Lose points for negative behaviors
- Ignore trivial misdeeds
- Model respectful communication and collaboration
- Model organized and consistent behavior
- Strategy for extinguishing undesirable behaviors
- Clearly define the problem behavior
- Lay out in advance the consequences for that behavior
- Choose a strong and related consequence
- Explain why the consequence is related
- Example: withhold pens for drawing on wall
- Respond to behavior immediately with consequence
- Deal with behavior consistently each time
- Instruct and correct child calmly and empathically
- Use effective measures of discipline sparingly
- Avoid less effective or harmful punishment measures
- Verbal Punishment (e.g. reprimand)
- Corporal Punishment (e.g. Spanking)
- Positive, supportive parent-child relationship
- References
- Wyckoff (1984) Discipline without Shouting, p. 8
- Banks (2002) Am Fam Physician 66(8):1447
- Stein (1998) Pediatrics 101(4 Pt 1):723
Discipline (C0237070) | |
|---|---|
| Definition (NCI) | Activities designed to promote appropriate behavior, conduct, or action including time out, limits, and controls. |
| Concepts | Health Care Activity (T058) |
| English | Discipline |
| Parent Concepts | Clinical action (C0441472) |
| Sources | NCI Derived from the NIH UMLS (Unified Medical Language System) |